This assessment is not about either of you individually. It’s about the relationship itself — the emotional safety between you, the conversations you’re avoiding, how you fight and whether you repair, and what the space between you would create if it became a child, a home, or a life.
Take this together or separately. Some couples find it revealing to compare answers afterward. Others prefer to take it privately and bring the results into a conversation. Either approach is welcome.
This complements the individual assessments. Each partner can also take the Singles, Women’s, or Men’s assessment for personal dimensions. This one is exclusively about the relationship.
Answers with a green edge reflect connection. Answers with a purple edge mark territory you may not have examined together.
12 questions • ~4 minutes • Private & confidential